Source: Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) State Crime News
As Valentine’s Day approaches, FBI Springfield takes the opportunity to remind the public that online relationships are not always as they appear. While many people find authentic rewarding relationships online, far too many fall prey to romance scams. In this type of scam, a criminal adopts a fake online identity to gain a victim’s affection and trust with the illusion of a romantic or close relationship in order to steal the victim’s money, personal or financial information, or even items of value.
Scammers use well-rehearsed scripts that have been used repeatedly and successfully, typically targeting victims via dating websites or apps, with the intention of establishing a relationship as quickly as possible. Some even keep journals on their victims to better understand how to manipulate and exploit them.
In 2023, the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center reported that Illinoisians lost almost $19 million in romance scams, a slight increase from the previous year. Nationwide, the dollar loss has declined slightly every year from 2021 to 2023; however, victims still lost $652.5 million in 2023.
“If someone has already sent money, the FBI will make every effort to see that the funds are returned to the victim by working with other law enforcement agencies and financial institutions, but oftentimes it can be difficult to investigate. That’s why the FBI relies on education and awareness to deter individuals from falling victim to these scams,” said Springfield Field Office Special Agent in Charge Christopher Johnson. “Proceed carefully and stay alert to warning signs from the very beginning to avoid the emotional and financial fall-out that accompanies romance scams.”
Romance scammers actively search dating websites, apps, chat rooms, and social networking sites in their efforts to build a relationship with an unwitting victim. Here are some red flags that might indicate you are headed for heartbreak.
- You are asked to leave the dating website where you met to communicate solely through email or instant messaging.
- The individual sends you a photo that looks like a glamour shot out of a magazine.
- The individual professes love quickly.
- The individual tries to isolate you from friends and family.
- The individual claims to be working and living far away.
- Plans made to visit you always cancel because of an emergency.
- You are asked to send money, personal and financial information, items of value, or to launder money.
- The individual uses stories of severe life circumstances, tragedies, deaths in the family, injuries to themselves, or other hardships to keep their victims concerned and involved.
- A claim they have knowledge of cryptocurrency investments or trading opportunities that will result in substantial profits.
FBI Springfield offers the following tips to avoid becoming a victim.
- Go slow and ask questions.
- If you suspect an online relationship is a scam, stop all contact immediately.
- Never send money to someone you met online and have not met in person.
- Never share your Social Security number or other personally identifiable information.
- Research the individual’s picture and profile using other online search tools.
- If you are planning to meet someone in person, proceed with caution, especially if you plan to travel to a foreign country.
- Be careful what you post and make public online as scammers can use details shared on social media and dating sites to better understand and target you.
- If you haven’t met the individual in person after a few months, you have good reason to be suspicious.
Many times, victims may feel embarrassed, ashamed, or humiliated and be reluctant to share their victimization with anyone, let alone report it to law enforcement. However, the FBI encourages anyone who has been victimized by this fraud or unsuccessfully targeted to contact FBI Springfield at 217-522-9675 and file a complaint with the FBI’s IC3. Coming forward will provide law enforcement with the necessary information to ensure online imposters are stopped and brought to justice.